Sunday, July 8, 2007
Travel Explorers
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ENJOY and plan a trip
Saturday, July 7, 2007
BEST ONES!
A human being is a part of a whole, called by us Universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest... a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty
more to follow!
My parents taught me...
My parents taught me RELIGION .“You better pray or GHOST will come out of the carpet.”
1. My parents taught me TO APPRECIATE A JOB WELL DONE.“If you’re going to kill each other, do it outside. I just finished cleaning.”
4. My parents taught me LOGIC.” Because I said so, that’s why.”
5. My parents taught me MORE LOGIC“If you fall out of that swing and break your neck, you’re not going to the store with me.”
6. My parents taught me FORESIGHT.“Make sure you wear clean underwear, in case you’re in an accident.”
7. My parents taught me IRONY.“Keep crying, and I’ll give you something to cry about.”
8. My parents taught me about the science of OSMOSIS .“Shut your mouth and eat your supper.”
9. My mother taught me about CONTORTIONIST.“Will you look at that dirt on the back of your neck!”
10. My mother taught me about STAMINA.“You’ll sit there until all that spinach is gone.”
11. My parents taught me about WEATHER .“This room of yours looks as if a tornado went through it.”
12 My parents taught me about HYPOCRISY .“If I told you once, I’ve told you a million times. Don’t exaggerate!”
13. My parents taught me the CIRCLE OF LIFE.“I brought you into this world, and I can take you out!”
14. My parents taught me about BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION .“Stop acting like your father!”
15. My parents taught me about ENVY.“There are millions of less fortunate children in this world who don’t have wonderful parents like you do.”
16. My parents taught me about ANTICIPATION.“Just wait until we get home.”
17. My parents taught me about RECEIVING .“You are going to get it when you get home!”
18. My parents taught me MEDICAL SCIENCE.“If you don’t stop crossing your eyes, they are going to freeze that way.”
19. My parents taught me ESP.“Put your sweater on; don’t you think I know when you’re cold?”
20. My parents taught me HUMOR .“When that lawn mower cuts off your toes, don’t come running to me.”
21. My parents taught me HOW TO BECOME AN ADULT.“If you don’t eat your vegetables, you’ll never grow up.”
22. My parents taught me GENETICS.“You’re just like your father.”
23. My parents taught me about my ROOTS .“Shut that door behind you. Do you think you were born in a barn?”
24. My parents taught me WISDOM.“When you get to be my age, you’ll understand.”
25. My parents taught me about JUSTICE .“One day you’ll have kids, and I hope they turn out just like you.”
Traits to lookout for
1. She's independent
No one wants a girlfriend they have to baby-sit. Once in a while, like if she's had a rough day at work, it's great to be her shoulder to cry on, but if she can't seem to function without you and is constantly after you, she will eventually make you feel like you're suffocating, which is a surefire way to get you running out the nearest exit. Viz. Daily lunch, evening she calls up and asks Jaanu ... kahaa ho.. and you have to give same monotone answers daily. Day in and day out youwill not have anything to discuss... On the other hand, if she has her very own personality and opinions, can stand on her own two feet, both financially and emotionally, and is able to enjoy time away from you - while still missing you. This helps and in todays fast world, where interests vary or fade away fast, this a good remedy in itseld. of course - then she must be a great girlfriend.
2. She's intelligent
I hate to be the one to tell you this, but same routine gal gets real old, real fast. But if with brains, instead of you being the one in total control, you'll find yourself trying to figure out what she's really thinking behind those glazed eyes of hers - or if she's actually thinking at all. An intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She won't let you get bored of her. Besides, it's nice to have something to talk about between all daily chores.
3. She's sexual
While we're on the topic, a great girlfriend has to be sexually compatible with you. For instance, if you're into new wwild methods and positions and she's more of a idle boat waiting to be rowed (bad pun) type, that's a problem. The two of you have to be on the same page - or, at least, she has to be willing to wear leather and use a whip from time to time(KANK). Of course, this doesn't imply that she has to know all the right moves straight away; it simply means that you and she have an undeniable attraction and chemistry toward each other, and are able to communicate your desires verbally (or with physical cues). It is important that you please each other in the bedroom, or on top of the table - whatever the case may be.
4. She's beautiful
I know, this one is kind of debatable, but important nonetheless. A great girlfriend will not only want to look good for you, but also for herself. She should always look her best and be well put together - matching lingerie is a definite plus. You have to be proud to have her on your arm and enjoy the sight of her in any light. And this doesn't mean that she has to be a Ash clone. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so if you think her full bottom or uncontrollable curls are beautiful, you're allowed.
5. She respects you
This is a biggie. Your woman must respect you. This means that she listens to you, even if she doesn't necessarily agree with what you're saying. And, of course, she never tries to demean or belittle you in any way, shape or form. A great girlfriend won't ever cause scenes in public or in front of your friends and family, and will always wait to discuss matters with you in private. If she respects you, chances are that she will behave in a tactful and diplomatic manner in most situations, which is definitely a good thing.
6. She lets you be a man
Do not - I repeat - do not get involved with a woman who tries to get you to eat Cornflakes and milk and badams(almonds) for breakfast and insists that you give up nightouts and games. You will end up resenting her more than you can imagine. A good girlfriend lets you be a guy in all your glory. If she's a great girlfriend, she'll even bring you and your buddies a couple of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches. She has to understand that men and women are different and should allow you to be yourself. Just like you wouldn't deprive her of going shopping with her best girlfriend, she shouldn't expect you to give up the guys for her.
7. She's nagless
There is nothing worse than a nag! A great girlfriend knows this and chooses her battles wisely. She knows when to speak up and when to let it slide. You don't want a girlfriend who will give you hell for forgetting a date or what she gifted you on first valentine (I did). But that does not mean you are not answerable for staying whole night out without her consent (confused)
8. She gets along with friends and family
A great girlfriend will not only help your mom in the kitchen, listen to your dad's stories and hang out with your friends, but she will enjoy it. She'll make a real effort to get to know and love the most important people in your life. And she won't try to get you to ditch your best buds.
9. She loves you
If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be sometimes, then she is the one. A woman who doesn't try to change you is hard to find. Of course, all women have their slightly annoying habits that one has to contend with, but if she really loves you, she will be able to cope with these. Another way to know if she really loves you is by observing the way she looks at you and treats you on an everyday basis. If the sight of you doesn't seem to faze her either way, and she doesn't really seem to care about what you have to say, she's either playing very hard to get, or sees you as just some guy. But if a surprise visit or phone call from you makes her light up, there's no denying that she loves you.
10. She makes you want to be a better man
Stop making that face... any man who has a great girlfriend or wife will tell you that she makes him want to be a better man o keep improving (i am doing). She does not have to say or do anything; it just is that way. If you suddenly feel bad about how you treated your sister or find yourself trying to get your finances in order, you might want to think about your motivation for doing so. It could be love
11. Telepathy
It happens.. trust me. When you start realizing what she is thinking and strike the same frequency then mate ... she is the Queen of your hearts. Many a time and in critical occasions the eyes and expressions says it all and this saves a lot of talking and makes a great bonding .
It will help in future when you are old and labored whole your life to keep your wife happy, expressions will be only saving grace!
To all the tobe Lovers out there:)
It's Official!
But still i succumbed to this laziness. Example to be quotes here are many. Ex : Gym, I am determined to go but I dont -Reason Latent Laziness.
Ex: Writting a Blog... -But did not- Reason-Nothing, pure Laziness :)
Ex: Learn a new Tech.. - I know I can do it, but then I dont, Reason : Laziness.
I have realized all humans are intelligent beings and there is nothing so called Less intelligent or more. Its how we overcome over laziness and laziness in mind. I do agree some people are genius, but then all Humans are suppose to be intelligent. :)
Now I have realized he valuable teachings of Parents and my grandpa over the years of thier effort to keep reminding not to be lazy and now i realize the importance of it.
I remember my formative years and those days for small issues, I was told to do it on my own, like cleaning my own room, going to a store, Bank work (dada & dad remember) and I always use to wonder this petty things can be done by our Manager or granddad's helper.. he always had many around him. But now I realize why.. this small jobs takes the element of laziness out of you. HATS off folks :)
But guys, ts not easy to keep away this LAZINESS... its perennial and its like a VIRUS. So, lets see how long I can do without it.
And I Promise I will Write regularly :)
Cheers,
Asher!!!